Naming Twins: Tips for Choosing Names That Grow With Them

Tips for Choosing the Perfect Names for Your Multiples

Naming a baby can be one of the most exciting (and overwhelming) decisions you'll make as a parent. And when you're expecting twins? The pressure doubles. Not only do you want each child’s name to be meaningful and beautiful on its own, but you may also want the pair to feel connected… without sounding like a rhyming duo from a sitcom.

So how do you strike the right balance?

Here are a few tips to help you navigate the naming game:

Naming Twins: Tips for Choosing Names That Grow With Them

1. Choose Connection Over MatchingIt’s common to want twin names that “go together,” but this doesn’t have to mean rhyme or repetition. Think of names that share a theme—nature, heritage, initials, or meanings—without sounding too similar. Noah and Lily? Connected by nature, but beautifully distinct.

2. Avoid Over-RhymingBen and Jen may be cute as toddlers, but adult professionals? Maybe not. Think long-term. Try saying the names aloud in different contexts—what will it sound like in school, at work, or on a wedding invitation?

3. Make Sure Each Child Has Their Own IdentityEven though your twins share a birthday (and maybe a stroller!), their names should reflect their individuality. This helps set the tone for seeing them as two unique people from day one.

4. Consider Future Mix-UpsSome names sound similar enough that they get confused in noisy environments like classrooms or playgrounds. Emma and Ella might cause more mix-ups than you’d like.

5. Trust Your GutAt the end of the day, you know your babies best. If you love a name—even if it breaks every “rule”—go for it. Your love and intention are what truly give the name meaning.

Remember: You’re not just naming a pair. You’re naming two whole people, each with their own journey. Choose names that let them grow into their full selves—together and apart.